Frequently Asked Questions

There are three ways to engage with us... choose as many as you’d like:

1. Introductions: Meet culturally aligned, like-minded people without the pressure of matchmaking. It’s low stakes, high vibes - every connection is vetted, so you can feel confident about who you’re meeting.

2. Events: Experience Intentionally Crafted Social Events — You Never Know Who You Might Meet

3. Coaching: Transform your dating life and enroll in one of our coaching programs. Join our groundbreaking virtual group coaching experience that is reshaping how people connect and date in today's fast paced world or work one-on-one with Arvia Few, and receive a personalized roadmap to dating success built specifically for you
Once an application is submitted, it is automatically placed on a waitlist pending review by our Membership Committee. Continual review of the waitlist remains a vital part of building a vibrant community.

Membership decisions can range, depending upon the volume of applications in the queue.

Approved applicants will receive notification by email.
Our focus is now on introductions, providing a more accessible and flexible way to connect with like-minded individuals. However, we do offer limited matchmaking services as a niche, high-end offering. This is an exclusive service designed for a select number of clients at a time, reflecting the personalized attention and in-depth process involved. If you're interested, please reach out to inquire about availability and details.
We love that you value the DOTTIE community and truly appreciate your interest to become a part. While there are numerous platforms available to bring together a wide range of people, DOTTIE was expressly created to fill a void in the market for people of color.

If you’d like to support our mission, please consider becoming an ally, referring a melanin friend, or contributing funds to support our community.

Contact us at info@thedottieclub.com.
We’re fortunate to have representation across the U.S. with particularly strong support in New York, D.C., Houston, Boston, Chicago, and Atlanta.

In the spirit of a beta approach, have begun with pop-up events in the New York metro area and Atlanta. Learnings from NY will help inform our approach to a broader rollout of the DOTTIE Social Club in other markets.
We'd love to explore collaboration possibilities. For general inquiries, please share details and questions about what you envision to info@thedottieclub.com.
Of course, we would love to talk to you. Email us at info@thedottieclub.com.
Yes, please contact us at info@thedottieclub.com. We evaluate each applicant on a case-by-case basis.
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